04 / POLICIES & FAQ
Screening, deposits, and frequently-asked questions
GENERAL POLICIES
Please read the following information before booking or reaching out with questions. Thank you!
Screening
All clients are subject to a basic screening process to protect both parties. Screening is non-negotiable. If you are uncomfortable with being screened, I respect that, but I ask you to please find another provider. Please note that providers who do not screen are more likely to be scammers (…or worse). Screening will be done before confirming booking or paying a deposit.
Deposits
I require a 20% deposit via CashApp or Venmo to confirm a booking. If you require more discretion, we can arrange a meetup to pay the deposit in cash. Deposits are non-negotiable. If you are uncomfortable paying a deposit due to fear of being scammed, please consider an icebreaker meeting, or find another provider. Please note that providers who do not take deposits are more likely to be LE.
Your deposit is fully refundable if you cancel 48 hours or more prior to your booking. If you cancel less than 48 hours prior, you may reschedule ONE TIME, or forfeit your deposit. Abuse of reschedules and/or cancellations will result in forfeiture of deposit or being blacklisted.
The only exception to my deposit policy is for icebreakers; the first time you schedule an icebreaker, you may do so without a deposit. However, should you cancel an icebreaker booking and wish to reschedule then or later, I will require a deposit.
Booking
If you are amenable to my screening and deposit policies, then please contact me via email, text, any of the messenger apps listed on my Contact Me page, or my booking form (preferred).
To increase the likelihood of a prompt response, please include the following information when contacting me:
Where you found me
What service you're interested in
A couple of potential dates/times and hours you're interested in
Please keep all communication professional and clean. The more direct and informative your message is, the more likely I am to respond promptly.
FREQUENTLY-ASKED QUESTIONS
How far do you travel for outcalls?
I am based in north OC and will travel in an approximately 30 mile radius from Garden Grove without travel fees. Additional travel fees will apply based on mileage/time; if you are outside this radius please contact me for a quote. I am also often in the SF Bay Area and may take bookings there on occasion.
Where are you located for incalls?
I generally host in the vicinity of Anaheim or Irvine.
Are you available right now?
Most likely not. I usually need at least 24 hours of advance notice; I prefer 48 hours or more as my schedule is very hectic.
Okay, so when are you available?
My schedule is so irregular that I can’t even post it here, as it would probably change within the next couple of hours. It’s best to name multiple desired days/times when reaching out to book so we can find what works best.
I need discretion, is that okay?
Your personal business isn't my concern, and I see people from all walks of life, so no judgment here. I've no interest in climbing onto the nearest rooftop to announce your business to the world.
What kinks can I indulge?
Popular consensual kinks I entertain as a Dom include but are not limited to: roleplay, foot worship, bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation, sissy, and human furniture. Of course, ask me about what you have in mind.
Are your rates negotiable?
No.
I'm between paychecks/going through a divorce/my cat died/my wallet got stolen and I can't afford a deposit/your rates or send screening info. Can you make an exception?
I'm sorry to hear that, but no. My companionship is a luxury, not a basic need (contrary to popular belief ;) ), so please reach out once you're in a better place.
I contacted you but haven't heard back. Why?
I try to respond to messages within 24 hours. If I haven't responded to you after that time, top reasons include:
I couldn't understand your message
Your message was too vague
Your message was rude/disrespectful
Your message made it clear you did not read my policies
Your message asked for something explicitly against my stated policies
Messaging a one-liner like "hey" or "are you available" will guarantee your message goes ignored. That said, if you do not believe your message was any of the above, try messaging me again; sometimes things do get lost in the shuffle. If you read this far, include the word "apoptosis" when you reach out to me for a 10 percent discount for new clients.
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Reach out. Let’s make some incredible memories together.
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